The Long Road to Old Fang-od
Jan 14, 2014
I adjusted my position in between the steel tubes, enough to give Pinky and nine other men room to wiggle on top of the overloaded jeepney bound for Tinglayan. At 8 o’clock, Kalinga was already ablaze with sunlight, sterilizing our skin, preparing the canvass for old Fang-od. Even with sunscreen, the sun stabbed sharply into my epidermis, as if prepping it for what was about to come.
In a (un)fortunate turn of events, the Victory Liner bus we took from Manila the night before stalled for three hours on the road, stretching our travel time to 14 hours instead of 11. We missed the last commute to Tinglayan by half an hour, but we got to indulge our sleep-deprived bodies in a long hot shower and a soft bed at Davidson Hotel. At six thirty the next day, we were on our way to the Dangwa Bus Station to catch the 7-A.M. trip, still groggy, hungry, puffy. I hate early-morning starts. But this was our last chance to meet the 93-year-old famed traditional tattooist, Fang-od (Whang-Od), before peak season. It was now or never.
Hair There and Everywhere
Aug 16, 2013
Like I thought it would be, I overpaid for my haircut again.
Life is not easy for a wandering damsel with fast-growing hair. The locks grow so unglamorously long before you finish saying “hair salon.” Worse, not every salon would even want to cut your hair---even if you offer them a million kisses.
Once in South Sudan, I spent an hour with a poor Dinka driver looking for a salon willing to snip my locks. Most of them shooed me off in disgust: “What’s wrong with you? You have very nice hair and you want to cut it off? You are mad!” (Now if you call waist-length frizzy hair growing blond at the tips because of split ends “nice,” then so be it, but I don’t have Rapunzel illusions.) One woman at an empty parlor actually glared creepily at me and quietly said, “I won’t commit a crime. See if one of those barbers next door will.” I got an ‘80s shaggy cut from one of the Kenyan barbers after I bribed him I’d give his brother a new set of crutches if he gives in to my whim.
In Thailand I found my perfect hairdresser. But it came with risks.
Take A Leap of Faith (Abridged)
Mar 19, 2013
To my future child,
I am not certain whether or not you are fortunate to have me as a parent. To many people’s eyes, I am a nomad, a wanderer, a free spirit---one with a rootless existence. To some, I am a rebel for I choose to defy conventions and live life as I feel it should be lived. But to a few, I am a person of infinite passions, an individual who makes things happen because I choose to live my dreams.
I am a traveler, my child. And you have to understand that a traveler cannot give you all the material possessions your heart desires. All I have is a wealth of memories and wisdom that I have carefully tucked in my heart, so when you come into this world, I will be able to let you experience what really matters in life.
The Great African Love Bus
Mar 16, 2013
Welcome to He Says, She Says Sundays! A battle of the sexes. Two different opinions on a jointly enjoyed experience! Have fun reading them both!
Even before we became an item, Dilman and I were tickled by this idea of a road trip around Africa, filming our experiences along the way in the hopes of baking a mean documentary and whipping a bestseller. You know, two strangers travelling together for six months. Will they fall in love or beg the gods to not let their paths cross ever again? Weave in the inter-racial thread in the picture, and you get yourself a money-making venture, people!
Well, the universe had other plans. Cupid got to us first before the road trip materialized. But that didn’t mean we had totally abandoned it. When the opportunity presented itself, we jumped into the Love Bus from the shores of Lake Victoria to the coast of Mombasa. Our imaginations were drenched in thoughts of cuddling at the back of the bus, whispering sweet nothings into each other’s ears while the whole world was asleep (except the driver). You know, the kind of things that normally make you cringe but can get away with when you’re travelling in a foreign country.